Legendary Kenyan musician Marya, celebrated for her iconic voice and timeless hits, has shared how a period of serious illness completely reshaped her view of friendship.
Speaking in a recent interview, Marya revealed that her health struggles laid bare the reality of her relationships.
โWhen I got sick, it was like a spotlight shining on who really cared,โ she said.
She recounted how several people she once considered close friends vanished during her most vulnerable moments.
โIt was painful but eye-opening. Being ill made me realize not everyoneโs intentions are genuine. Itโs easy to be around when youโre successful, but true friendship shows up in the hard times.โ
The illness forced her to step back from the fast-paced music industry and focus on healing, bringing with it difficult yet valuable lessons.
According to clinical psychologist Dr. Elaine Harper, Maryaโs experience mirrors what many people go through.
โWhen someone falls ill or faces adversity, their social circle often contracts, highlighting who offers authentic care versus those with superficial connections,โ she explained.
Though the experience was heartbreaking, Marya says it has given her a new appreciation for genuine companionship. She now surrounds herself with a smaller, tighter circle that stood by her through the storm.
โIโve learned to cherish the people who stayed. They are my true family now,โ she said.
Fans have praised her honesty and resilience, with many relating to the painful process of losing friends during hardship.
Marya hopes her journey inspires others to rethink the meaning of loyalty and care.
โItโs okay to let go of people who donโt show up for you. True friends are priceless, and sometimes hardship helps you find them.โ
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