Although I never imagined I would publicly acknowledge this, I believe it is crucial because there may be another lady suffering in silence just as much as I did. My spouse is from the Luhya region, and my name is Janet. If you are familiar with the stereotype, you are aware of the common rumour that Luhya men are “blessed down there.” My spouse was no different, I must say.

I believed that I had won the lottery when we initially got married.  He was beautiful, industrious, and well-endowed. However, what appeared to be a godsend instead became my personal nightmare. I would weep in private every time we became intimate. In an attempt to console me, my patient and kind spouse would get irritated, too. What should have been passionate evenings were ones of disillusionment, conflicts, and tears. The worst thing? Women are not prepared for this by society. To read more click here.