Matata’s Marcus Ojiambo has spoken for the first time about his past romantic relationship with Ruth Kamande, who was sentenced to death in 2018 for the murder of her boyfriend.

Speaking in a recent interview, Marcus offered a personal glimpse into a past that connects him to one of Kenya’s most publicised criminal cases.

“It’s a true story. Ruth Kamande was my first love… My first girlfriend,” he stated, setting the stage for a story of young love that ended long before tragedy struck.

Their story began in Nairobi’s Dandora estate.

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Marcus painted a picture of a close, youthful relationship, even describing Kamande, a black belt then in Taekwondo, as someone who was once very dear to him.

He noted the depth of their connection, saying, “We were genuine friends. She could even sleep over at our home.”

However, the relationship eventually soured.

Marcus disclosed that their breakup was due to infidelity on her part. “She used to listen to me a lot but then she betrayed me,” he explained, adding, “We broke up and I pursued her cousin after.”

Years later, news broke that Kamande had been involved in a violent altercation that led to the death of her then-boyfriend, Farid Mohammed.

The news came as a profound shock to Marcus. “I was shocked,” he recalled, struggling to reconcile the person he knew with the crime she was accused of.

Ruth Wanjiku Kamande was convicted for the 2015 murder of Farid Mohammed.

During the trial, Kamande claimed she had acted in self-defence after discovering his HIV-positive status, but this defence was rejected by the High Court.

Despite the conviction and the horrific nature of the crime, Marcus revealed that he maintained a level of contact with Kamande, visiting her several times in prison.

This connection speaks to the complexity of their shared history. He admitted to being torn between the court’s verdict and the memory of the person he once loved.

In a poignant admission, Marcus confessed his internal conflict. “There is part of me that believes her, in a way, ’cause of how I know her as a person. Maybe I don’t know the other side,” he shared.

“For me, I believe her story as a person.” His statement highlights a lingering loyalty to the memory of his first love, a stark contrast to the grim reality of her conviction.